into a control mechanism I had to let go and let God the same thing I learned when I was many years ago lived with an alcoholic and I went to a 12-step program I had to learn to let go and let God that it was difficult Ruchi sorry you you can you can you weigh in on this uh idea of your mid-20s where you're saying you need to say

sorry and you keep screwing up Yeah.

So I want to reframe the question from a perspective of Jewish spirituality.

So the question is, how many times do you apologize if you continue making the same mistakes? So in the Jewish tradition, there's a practice called in Hebrew teshuvah, which is commonly translated as repentance.

But since nobody uses that word in real life, I prefer to use the word renewal.

that you can renew yourself, you can recreate yourself.

And there are a few steps to this process.

And that feeling of being chosen

Does it ever come up as a theme with your clients in one way or another? And given that you're a mother of seven, does this ever come up at home as well? Did you have to learn these skills?

100% I had to learn these skills.

And I'll preface my response by saying that because I have struggled so mightily in my parenting, that is exactly why I have become super passionate about helping other parents.

And that's why I became a parenting coach.

So I've had to learn.

how to move away from my default mode because my default mode is not about waiting or wondering.

My default mode is called save, solve, and fix.

it's very interesting because lisa um oh hi lisa um said i get watch and wait but what does wonder look and sound like if we're doing it sort

Does it ever come up as a theme with your clients in one way or another? And given that you're a mother of seven, does this ever come up at home as well? Did you have to learn these skills?

100% I had to learn these skills.

And I'll preface my response by saying that because I have struggled so mightily in my parenting, that is exactly why I have become super passionate about helping other parents.

And that's why I became a parenting coach.

So I've had to learn.

how to move away from my default mode because my default mode is not about waiting or wondering.

My default mode is called save, solve, and fix.

it's very interesting because lisa um oh hi lisa um said i get watch and wait but what does wonder look and sound like if we're doing it sort of well

Does it ever come up as a theme with your clients in one way or another? And given that you're a mother of seven, does this ever come up at home as well? Did you have to learn these skills?

100% I had to learn these skills.

And I'll preface my response by saying that because I have struggled so mightily in my parenting, that is exactly why I have become super passionate about helping other parents.

And that's why I became a parenting coach.

So I've had to learn.

how to move away from my default mode because my default mode is not about waiting or wondering.

My default mode is called save, solve, and fix.

it's very interesting because lisa um oh hi lisa um said i get watch and wait but what does wonder look and sound like if we're doing it sort of well