I still can't believe it.

I got engaged a few months ago and I'm so excited.

However, wedding planning has made things really awkward with me and my best friend.

We've been best friends for over 10 years, so I just never thought we'd end up here.

From the start, Mark and I knew we wanted something small and low key.

That also means no bridesmaids, no maid of honor, no matching outfits, no hen do with a sash.

It's just not our vibe.

bridesmaids? Maybe get her a gift and be like, I want you to be there with me getting ready in the morning but I'm not having bridesmaids as such.

We're

going to spill some tea.

Okay, so this is the first message.

Hi, guys.

Kicking myself as I'm typing this because I just didn't say hey.

But I just saw Melissa and Toby as I was going to work today in Shoreditch.

I was a million miles away and only realized it was you guys after.

like there's three

Do you know,

I'm going to say someone ghosted me, but we have to beep his name out.

Okay.

Do you promise? Get off the story, though.

Do you know who ghosted me? We have to beep his name out.

Wait, didn't

That's W-I-S-P-R flow dot A-I.

Okay, we're going to move on to the next dilemma.

Do you believe in ghosts? I believe in like...

higher being of something so i believe in like presence and like energy and like we live on and you know there are people that are with us and i and i believe in that like do i believe you know, your caricature, white ghost standing in the corner, seeing someone.

Like, not really, but I believe in a feeling and I believe in a sense and I believe in a, you know, that there are people that you've loved and lost that are still very much with you.

And I believe in the signs and I believe in the, you know, I think it's also...

i think it'd be quite depressing to not believe in i know i kind

going to rewatch it at

some stage.

I've got to rewatch it too.

Then

within a week of getting home after three months away, he broke up with me and told me he'd fallen out of love.

I was just completely blindsided.

Now I'm back at my family home, single, without a job, and suddenly the future I thought I was coming home to has completely disappeared.

Wow.

Luckily, I have a qualification that is internationally recognised, so technically I could go anywhere.

But instead of that feeling exciting, it just makes me really sad.

And like

Well, that was

fun.

That was so fun.

It was so fun.

I just find it fascinating because we're obviously hearing it from another perspective, but we all went kind of through the same thing.

And actually hearing her views on how she navigates television and leaving it all at the door and not bringing the emotional turmoil into day-to-day life, I thought was a great perspective to have and something that I wish...

I probably could have done, but I guess we were just that bit younger.

Hi, Melissa and Ruby.

It's so unattractive.

Let's pay I hate ironing to do it.

They're great, by the way.

They're fantastic.

Come to your door.

Same day delivery.

Yeah.

Are you okay with it?

Mm-hmm.

Friday night she did the legal wedding, the big long boozy dinner.

Saturday was the wedding.

I definitely feel like going to weddings now, I'm, I'm thinking about things I wouldn't have necessarily thought about.

I'm getting a lot of inspiration.

I feel like, I feel like-

Mm-hmm

Our favorite time.

Get the coffee from Gail's, stroll down the King's

Road.

Yeah, because then you're like halfway.

It's a nice point.

And then you can go stroll down.

You can like also the Zara in Chelsea is one of the best Zaras.

Fantastic.

though, sometimes.

Okay, ready?

I'm ready.

"Hi, girls.

I have to spill some red, hot tea.

I was out in London with friends the other day when I s-," oh, my God, this is so good.

"I was out with friends the other day in London when I spotted none other than Kim Kardashian casually riding a Lime bike around with Lewis Hamilton."

[laughs]

This is actually quite cool lingo.

We get better healthcare when we share.

[upbeat music] Okay.

"Hi, Melissa and Ruby.

I just wanted to say I'm a massive fan of you two and the pod." Aw, thank you.

"Here's my dilemma.

I'm 24, and I have a really close-knit group of friends.

There are seven of us in our friendship group.

Really? What's happening?

I-

... and having boundaries, still posting about them, but not vlogging, like, from 9:00 AM till 9:00 PM.

Yeah, so, and my, my answer is yes, I think you absolutely...

Like, people are also following you for you as the hot internet girl.

They're not necessarily following your relationship.

They wanna know what you're wearing, where you're eating, what you're doing, where you're hanging out.

Not, like, everything with you and your partner.

Is it?

Perfect.

I'm just meant to feel insecure.

Yeah, no, like whatever's happened in the past has happened, but that shouldn't, he doesn't need and shouldn't be bringing that into the relationship that he's got with you.

Like, yeah, everyone addresses past relationships, maybe things that they've been through, but it shouldn't be this recurring thing where it's now taking over your relationship because Because of how he was previously treated, like that's not fair.

And that's now affecting your life and your relationship with him.

And honestly, there are so many great guys out there that would, I'm sure, love to date you.

Yeah, that would say love you all the time.

yeah please tell us and i really have faith that you are you deserve you just seem like a lovely normal sweet pea and we can't be having shit like this in our lives no we can't life is too short

But did a job for

you.

Did a job for you.

I brought up that we aren't really happy anymore and he ended it as he said he knew I'd been checked out.

I...

You did say that, Tim.

I did say that.

Like, you walk in on your friend who you've put up... been very kind to like have stay in that your house and then you see that on your sofa I would be so fuming so if I was putting you and Gav up and you're shagging on my sofa and I walked in on it I'd be like hey one don't want to see that so that's really annoying but like obviously everyone has sex and that's natural and that's a separate issue so like I'll just get over that but two why you have shagging on my sofa because that is so disrespectful

Tell me about the AI fruit.

They were all characters, right? And, like, the strawberry was the wife, and she was like this, like, full-on, like, cartoon, like, person, like a lady.

She was just a fruit.

And she would, like, cheat on her husband, who was like a cucumber.

And then people were so invested in the AI fruit that then my algorithm was people taking pictures of strawberries in the supermarkets being like, "I could never purchase this.

Cheater.

You stay away."

Okay

And I know they're not true, but, like, I need them on pen and pa-," I don't know what his process is.

Yeah, yeah.

No, that is so valid and makes sense.

And I think that people journal, and that's some people's, like, outlet on, like, their thoughts and how to manage them and process them and feelings.

And we all definitely have different feelings and waves of emotion.

Like, we're only human.

Nothing's perfect in this world, no relationship and no situation.

Sorry.

Am

I nervous about my engagement? No, I'm not, actually.

I understand why people, like, would say that.

I mean, me and you have judged a lot of people for getting engaged.

I have.

We both have.

I had a lot to say on that, didn't I, back in the day? Yeah.

yeah

You're going to find your man.

You absolutely will.

I feel it in my bones.

Okay, shall I go on to dilemma number two? Okay.

Hi, girlies.

I'm looking for a bit of reassurance.

My boyfriend and I are planning a are planning to move to Australia in October.

your return flight booked, like how Rube said last week, actually, like if you've always got Something to look forward to.

fair play you know that fair play to Oz so this is Ruby's favourite tea

love it Do you want to give it a synopsis? It's from M&S.

It's basically their shortbread tea.

Now, I don't know if anyone follows Melissa's wardrobe on Instagram, but she raves about this tea, right? And I was like, oh my God, I love a shortbread.

I love a biscuit.

imagine that in like a cup of like English breakfast tea I would never drink that in the morning but at 3pm sugar craving and I'm like I want something really sweet but I'm not going to have a biscuit and I'm not going to have like a cake I get my craving that sugar fix from a cup of this and it's delicious but I can't get it in Oz so I thought

Michael.

We first met at university during our first Freshers' Week pre's in our student flat.

I think it depends on like how tanned I am.

Yeah.

I actually haven't done it in like a while, in like a year.

But like, I'll go back for like, I'll do like three blips a year just to like top up everywhere.

But yeah, they have a new laser machine.

So if you're going to go there, request to have their new machine because my God, it's so much stronger.

Like so much stronger.

longer.

Snug.

And then I like would take it off a couple of times to sleep, and like getting it off was like a bit of a nightmare, as was getting it on.

Anyway, then I saw you, you got it on, and then we went away, and I think with alcohol and with flying and with the heat-

Did he not know?

And then I ...

He's like, just, like, blow this shimmer, like, with these two hands across the nose.

And I, it's like he looks like Army paint.

[laughs] It looks like Army paint.

Okay,

good luck.

Right, dilemma number four.

Girls, this is in capitals, by the way.

Girls, please, I desperately need your help.

Ten exclamation marks.

I've been with my boyfriend for just under a year and we're both 22.

You're going to get the ick and you're

Yeah.

We've asked you all to send in your love letters to celebrate those friendships that stand the test of time and the long distance.

Okay, so letter number one.

"Hi, girlies.

Loved you both on MIC.

I have to write a love letter to my beautiful friend Keisha, who is technically my second cousin, but she did something so amazing recently that I just have to give her a shout-out.

My ex-boyfriend was half American, so he lived over here with his dad, and then spent summers in California with his mom.

Mm.

Oh, it was him.

"I was fashionably late, and as I walked in, I was looking for the guy my friend had described.

Suddenly I noticed a guy that looked a bit too familiar.

Then I realized I'd been set up [laughs] on a blind date with my ex-boyfriend." [laughs] "We started crying with laughter at the situation.

We decided to get one drink together, not as a date, but just for old time's sake, and we'd go our separate ways.

In the last few days, he has been messaging me nonstop, asking to go out again.

What should I do?" Avoid like plague.

Yeah.

Don't speak about them that way.

They were so battered and hammered because they'd had one too many drinks that they actually, the airline refused to take off with them on the plane because they were harassing passengers.

The Italian police came onto the plane and arrested them.

on the plane they waved us all off right as they were being escorted there was a police car outside the plane so I had a window seat and I was watching them come off swinging their bottom they thought it was like a show with Lemoncello waving us all off Gav was like that's your mates from check-in I'm like oh oh my god I thought you were going to be like, they were like, buy, buy that bird

from someone who never really used to work out

yeah and I feel like in the last year like wedding aside that feels like the force at the moment but even before I got engaged like my fiance is like huge into fitness like trains every day works out every day And I also think it's like a huge part of like the Oz lifestyle as well.

So I've been like weight training and I've just started running.

So that's kind of what I do between them both.