That's what I think, you know, I as a divorce coach work on with people because they rush into this process not knowing any of these things, right?

Yeah.

Yes.

So two more things that I think are also important and major mistakes that clients tend to make.

One is this whole area of spying on your spouse to gather information, documents, records, et cetera.

This is a landmine.

Now, you mentioned I, I practiced in New York, and so the laws across the various jurisdictions are somewhat different.

Mm.