No, when you're in

deep grief, you're in deep grief.

If you are in deep grief, that's, you know, in deep hate also, you know, like just that real, real dark, you know, and where you are angry and bitter and then, yeah, you need to kind of come back up over here because that's going to, that's just going to keep you low.

But when you're, when you're just sad and hurt, you know, and crying and, you know, that's your vibration is just pure love.

they're right there.

And what he's, well, the one, it's one of my cards too, that says the deeper your cry, the tighter my hug.

So I know when I'm crying and you get those kind of like, Oh, that's like just, And then you start to feel heavy.

He had a diagnosis