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Aug 18, 2026
783. How Childhood Shapes the Adults We Coach - With Paddy Ney
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Mark WalshHOST
I've, you know, I remember did some work with kids at the Buddhafield festival years ago, and they were kids of, you know, hippie parents, and they weren't happy, and that was quite clear to me.

Patrick NeyGUEST
So I get it for parents now listening to this, like, "What?" But so rules and boundaries, we, you talked about punishment, hitting.

Patrick NeyGUEST
You basically agreed that it's maybe not good for the kid and leaves them with lifelong trauma issues, which, yes, I can agree with that.

Patrick NeyGUEST
Th- but then no empathy as well, so where should you be? You should be somewhere in that zone between the two.

Patrick NeyGUEST
You're not gonna get everything right, so just fricking relax, okay? You're gonna get some of it right, some of it wrong.

Patrick NeyGUEST
Embrace the duality of existence, which means that you'll bring them equal amounts of pain and pleasure.

Patrick NeyGUEST
The very fact you brought them into this planet m- means that, and by the way, it wasn't just you, because it's the continuation of the human race.
20 MINS LATER
783. How Childhood Shapes the Adults We Coach - With Paddy Ney
27:42
27:51
27:57
28:03
28:08
28:13
28:18

Mark WalshHOST
I've, you know, I remember did some work with kids at the Buddhafield Festival years ago, and they were kids of, you know, hippie parents, and they weren't happy, and that was quite clear to me.

Patrick NeyGUEST
So I get it for parents now listening to this, like, "What?" But so rules and boundaries, we, you talked about punishment, hitting.

Patrick NeyGUEST
You basically agreed that it's maybe not good for the kid and leaves them with lifelong trauma issues, which, yes, I can agree with that.

Patrick NeyGUEST
Th- but then no empathy as well, so where should you be? You should be somewhere in that zone between the two.

Patrick NeyGUEST
You're not gonna get every day right, so just fricking relax, okay? You're gonna get some of it right, some of it wrong.

Patrick NeyGUEST
Embrace the duality of existence, which means that you'll bring them equal amounts of pain and pleasure.

Patrick NeyGUEST
The very fact you brought them into this planet means that, and by the way, it wasn't just you, because it's the continuation of the human race.
7 MINS LATER