kind of thing

taking that initiative and looking around the room and so there's this like disconnect that is happening between couples and so the moms are coming to me and divorce rate is so high these days and it's just mothers are because of these expectations on them because the the men and the women are being both raised in the same household, in the same society.

So when my husband, way back in 2003, when I had gotten my master's, I was doing an internship and I was working at a domestic violence shelter.

I loved it.

Like I really loved it.

But we had two kids at that time and my husband was working construction with my dad.

We were like barely getting by paycheck to paycheck.

So what can you suggest that setting healthy boundaries actually looks like in the context of motherhood?