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mean, men get a bad rep, you know, and I really understand that because there's lots of statistics, you know, that are terrifying.

Yeah.

I just read, it's up there, Rebecca Solnit.

She's a feminist writer.

She wrote an essay called Men Explain Things to Me.

And it's, it's, It started because she went to a dinner party of like a, she called it like a Ralph Lauren style, like log cabin, like very kind of posh.

yeah