And and kind of like, you know, compare myself to others? Like, is that did when did that happen?

Say there's probably three main phases that that's occurred.

Primarily, in a more instinctual and natural way.

When I was a child, I was different, quite different from a lot of other children.

I have, I have three siblings, all of which are older.

And so I grew up exposed to more mature personalities and different cultural aspects.

And my parents are a little bit older.

And what do you think is the challenge? If there is a challenge with really embodying that masculine maturation, like, is there a fear? Like, you know, is there resistance half the time? What do you think comes up for people along this journey?