or Adlerian psychology,

Jungian psychology as well.

Two of my favorites.

I think Freud was great as the father of psychology, but he was a little... little concerned about fucking his mother anyway though he was a bit he was a bit of a perv you know he was a little out of his mind didn't you know god love him but um the victim the problem is is that they almost universally exist together yeah yeah so you can't have a victim mindset unless you were victimized by something so there is a qualifier right like i went through a thing And so looking back at the story I told you about my past, it still unfolds in my mind.

I still don't know all of it.

But the choice I was making between 2009 and 2018 was to live as a victim, right? I was choosing to live a lifestyle of excuses and no accountability and nothing was my fault and trauma, trauma, trauma.

And, you know, that cost me marriage.

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