Yes

... because everyone's getting blindsided, blindsided in love primarily, but then in every area, whether it's health and finance and this, and so you've got a double Scooby-Doo.

You've got a love, a love financial combo going, and it is common.

You know, usually when pe- ... look up, you know, you've got outer, the outer appearance, and then you've got the financial aspect.

And, you know, the olden days then, that's what the woman, you know, and she was the caretaker and, you know, I mean, the house, the homemaker, and then he would go work and this and that.

And that all shifted totally and now everyone works, but often, you know, the men are looking for the women now to take care of them financially.

It's like, what the hell's going on here? You know? I mean, ultimately everyone should be self-responsible, and you come together as a couple and you enhance one another.

Mm-hmm.