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Milah Mapp

Milah Mapp

Jamilah "Milah" Mapp — best-selling author, certified sexologist, and co-host of the Good Moms Bad Choices podcast

Sep 17, 2026

26:01
scary and chicago's such a beautiful city to keep making the headlines for the foolishness and i i just i i don't even know what to do i feel like it's a long con run by the cia the same way they did the experiments in st louis when they dropped uh chemical welfare over the projects in st louis that was a whole thing it's it's bro it's it's different
26:26
You know, it's funny you brought that up because we just had Deontay Kyle on the podcast and he was talking about men and boys not getting enough affection, enough touch.
26:35
And so they're touch starved.
26:36
And that's why the niggas be always be like, can a nigga get a hug as a nigga, you know? And I'm like, that is something to consider because I think in a lot of communities, boys are told like after a certain age, you don't give affection to your sons, but I feel like boys actually need to be loved on harder and longer than girls.
26:53
Girls are more independent.
26:54
Boys actually need to be, i feel like more affirmed more like more touched and felt because the because it's hard out there for them so i think this is an in-community thing that we need to address we need to love on our people you know asking to hear i'm going i'm going to moan and hug and and be on this lab every time i see him because i'm a real friend platonic intimacy is something that we're missing as a community and you know like social media is making strange so hug your friends, hug your homies, especially the men, so maybe we'll have less violence in Chicago.

8 MINS LATER

35:42
i gotta be smart about what i what i'm putting what not putting away because i feel like we're right at the cusp of a um what's the word depression
35:54
i think i feel like i think we're here i think we're i think we're already there i don't think we're we're at the cusp i think we're in it and i think yeah it doesn't make any sense and i'm wondering how we're surviving in l.a every day outside of extracurricular activities because the stress is so high But also like back to the baby thing, I just saw an article yesterday about how, you know, in a world that seems so uncertain, you know, because even me with my older woman ass, I'm going to have another baby.

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