
Michael DeRuyter
Pastor, leadership coach, and consultant with The Leader's Journey; host of The Leader's Journey Podcast and Bowen family systems scholar.
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Sep 2, 2026
Hope Beyond Repair: Parenting Foster and Adoptive Children Without the Pressure to Fix with Michael DeRuyter
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Jenny BrownHOST
So would you like to just introduce some of your story and tell us a little bit about you and your family?

Michael DeRuyterGUEST
sure thank you so much for having me i'm looking forward to this conversation and uh you know i get to talk about my family which is also a joy so i appreciate the chance to do that uh i have a wife and two biological children and when they were 10 years old and nine years old respectively uh as a family we decided that we have some resources and we have some capacity and we're aware of some need.

Michael DeRuyterGUEST
At the time we were living in the state of Michigan and we said there are kids that need a home and we're in a position to help that to happen.

Michael DeRuyterGUEST
And so we began exploring the foster opportunities in the state of Michigan.

Michael DeRuyterGUEST
We weren't trying to complete our family or overcome, you know, a lack of biological children or whatever, you know, all kinds of motivations to get into the foster and adoption world.

Michael DeRuyterGUEST
But our goal really was to see if we had resources that could help meet a need.

Michael DeRuyterGUEST
And we as a family discovered a ten year old boy that seemed like a good fit for us.

Jenny BrownHOST
What do you think had shaped your rescuing expectations in the beginning and what kind of things unraveled them?