night he's like don't want to talk to me i'm like no

i want to go to bed exactly and yet we see our kids do that same thing and we think it's bad behavior because that is part of society what society's messaging has been so i would say that you to trust yourself, you know, your child so well, when you are seeing them really strike, like really trying and, and, and, and you see just, you'll, you'll notice things where you're like, that just doesn't feel right.

That's not a sense of ease.

Kids want to do well.

They want to be engaged.

They want, you know, yes, we get our kids who are, if we have like a higher level autism where it's, there's more of that disconnect and stuff like that.

But trusting your own intuition about your child and reaching out and just saying, you know, I just feel like things could have more of a sense of ease for them.

So like what is really calling you there right now? How can you support?