do? Melanie throws on whatever she can find and runs out the door, arriving at the nearest Whole Foods right as they open.

I get the ashwagandha and I go back to the car and I'm like shaking as I'm opening it.

Like, I need it bad, you know.

And then I looked at myself in the mirror and I'm like, Melanie, you know, are you losing your mind, girl? You acting a hot mess over a darn supplement.

It was just ridiculous.

My socks didn't match.

And I didn't care.

So Melanie started sharing them.

Uh, when did you realize you didn't care anymore? [laughs]

You know, I was sitting in my car one day.

I had a hysterectomy, and with that hysterectomy came perimenopause.

I was sitting in my car one day, and I was looking in the rear view mirror, and I just, I was, I was putting so much pressure on myself.

And I, you know, you gotta go clean, you gotta go cook, you gotta go do this, you gotta do, do, do, do.

And I just said, "You know what, Melanie? You do not care much anymore.

You gotta stop it.

And how has this, this, this, uh, declaration, or affirmation of attitude, has it helped you? Is it working for you?

So just for our audience, if you could just share how that even happened.

Yes, this was on a day, and I just realized I was putting so much pressure on myself about so many different things.

And, you know, it's like a top that's about to explode.

And I said, Melanie, you just simply do not care much anymore.

Yeah.

And I decided to, because I am a content creator, let me hit record and see, does anyone want to join this club with me called the We Do Not Care Club? And overwhelmingly, I would say within 20 minutes of me getting home, it was viral across all platforms.

That's an amazing club to join, by the way.

rooms, okay? Okay, let's go.