Tell me about that.

So I had a dream to live downtown in a major city, and in the back of my mind, I had a crazy dream to live on a boat.

Uh, and one day I walked around the Inner Harbor, I'm like, "I can do both." Uh, uh, and I was starting a business.

I needed low overhead.

I'll never forget this.

The boat payment was 300 a month, and the, the slip fee for a billion dollar view, I had a, I had a billion dollar view of the Inner Harbor, the aquarium, you know, Fells Point, all that.

A, a water taxi went from my yacht club to the Inner Harbor.

Yep.

How do we bridge that gap?

Well, uh, uh, part of it is self-awareness.

So when I do-- When I'm coaching an executive, we usually call those anger management issues, right? People that just go to zero to 60 i- uh, half a second, they blow up.

You need, you need to understand what are your triggers, right? And then you need to understand when a trigger comes into your life, a, an external stimuli, you have to understand how to respond.

See, most people react.

They don't respond, right? So this is an example I use all the time, people get.

You remember that email you got that just warrants you to, "Yeah, I'm so angry," and then you fire off a response.

"Hey fat, ugly man who's dumber than a box of rocks, how does it feel?" Like, that's where I wanna go.