Yeah.

But going back to your question about time blocking, one of the things that I'll share with couples, when I sit down with a couple and I can tell that, man, they are just exhausted, they're running so hard, is I'll just pull a book off my shelf and I'll hand it to them and I'll ask them, hey, what do you see? And I'll ask them to open any page and what do you see? And they'll tell me that I see words, I see a page number, I may see pictures or graphs.

And I keep telling them to keep looking, you haven't seen what I want you to see yet.

And some of them get it and some of them don't, but I usually will tell them, I'll say, Hey, I want you to see the margin in the book.

And if that book did not have margin in it, the words would run off the page.

And I think your life is like a book with no margin and the words are just running off the page and life doesn't make sense.

You guys aren't connecting.

That's, that's the very, that's the very

How do they shift to fix their eyes on things above so they're so full of the love of Christ they see themselves as a conduit of God's love as opposed to somebody that needs to just pull from another to feel decent about themselves?

I think you're really hitting it with what you're sharing.

And that goes back to Jeremiah 2, verse 13, where it says, My people have committed two sins.

They have forsaken me, the fountain of living water, and they have dug for themselves cisterns, broken cisterns that cannot hold water at all.

And we'll share this scripture with couples to help them recognize and see that, you know, we live in a broken and fallen world.

And in and of myself, I am like that broken cistern.

And if I get this picture of the bottom of a broken cistern, what am I going to find there? It's empty.

You know, so so how would you speak to that?