[laughs]

Yeah, no, no.

But in that lashing out, right, in that moment, the child gets attention, right? It becomes normalized.

Maybe previously the parent was absent, maybe just absent 'cause they were attending to their needs.

But if a child needs constant attention and affection from their parents, we learn to pass off certain things as that, as, as affection.

And so it builds within us certain programming.

Now, it doesn't always remain that, like, at that place where we're kind of falsely believing any attention is, is good attention.

Yeah.