What's the most surprising thing for you about fatherhood?

frustration i thought it was all going to be like wonder and fireworks but like sometimes baby's crying and it doesn't make sense why baby's crying um and so realizing like how much of the way that i was brought up influences the way that i feel like i should bring up my kid um and just kind of like trying to improve what is like so ingrained like i'll be more specific like I can't do it because I don't want to shit on family, but basically just like the flaws of your childhood become like a pattern that feels really natural to raise your own kid that way.

And so doing that works so that doesn't happen.

I

think that's awesome.

I think what you said, remember, you had that dream with my dad.

It felt like a forgiveness dream in a way or just like he's okay kind of dream.

I had a similar dream to that with him where I was in the bedroom and it was just me and him.