work their way through those things.

But I would say, contrasted to how Elaine's passing was so, you know, for the longest time, we didn't anticipate she was going to be dying.

She wasn't close to death until like 2022.

And so all those years, it was really a disease management battle going on.

you knew that the day was coming, but you just didn't know when or how, but in the meantime, there was a lot of living that happened in transition and so forth.

But I would say the grief, With Elaine's passing ties into what we were discussing earlier about all the little griefs you don't suffer while you're the support system because you can't allow yourself the luxury of that, let's put it bluntly.

And then secondly, the actual loss of the person, your day-to-day life with them.

She thinks talking to you.