And I'm wondering, because I know that you see so many people, I'm wondering if you see them not just when they're making Aliyah, do you get to see them or be in touch with them throughout the years and see these changes and see this whole Israelification, if you will, happen?

No, it's good.

I think it's a really, really great question.

It's an incredible observation.

I guess this is not going to be a secret because we're sharing this.

It's going to be recorded on the record forever.

I think the word Zionism gets a lot of weird energy to it.

And I find, no, I'm not trying to disparage other cultures and how they celebrate, but my wedding was much stiffer much more about the outward appearance and it was just less fun because of it so that's for me that's like my two cents so just another thing to add to my endless list and yeah we had war and we've gone through a lot all of us and we're unified because of it and some of us are traumatized because of it and I get it but I think like you said if it's really dating then you're taking everything they're the good parts and the not great parts and making it work for you so yeah