So let's get into it.

So for me, presence is one of the most important things in fatherhood.

actually being there.

So I've always based my life around me, my availability, my presence for my son.

So I split up with his mum when he was four months and of course then stopped living with her.

but I've never left him so it was so important for me once separated and not living in the same house to make sure that I'm still seeing him as much as possible and yeah that's something I've always had apart from when unfortunately there was a time where she had stopped me seeing him but even as I say it's so important to me that I could not allow that to happen, so I then had to apply to court in 2023 and get my son back with me as he should have been.

Not full-time or anything.

And every habit I may have picking up my phone or doing things alone or whatever it is, my son is going to be my main thing I think about.