Sorry, keep going.

Yeah.

So, I mean, this is a huge one because, you know, natural male drive and instinct is to provide and to protect and all these other amazing things.

And Providing is wonderful, but it's not exactly what your daughter is asking for, especially when she's young.

She doesn't even understand what providing means.

And I think that this kind of talk really comes up a lot when we talk about work-life balance, which is a big conversation on my podcast.

And what I like to do is kind of take it back to when your daughter is young and she knows there's this thing called work, but she doesn't really understand what it is.

that's not just a caveat that's massive sorry sorry keep going

And if I dissect this gift and I can figure out why it works so well, maybe others can, can get that to work.

Yeah, that's exactly right.

I saw a lot of girls who were talking poorly about their relationship with their dad and blaming him for things.

And it's a lot of times it's not even what the dad intends at all, you know, but there's disconnects and we can get into all kinds of things, you know, related to that.

But, you know, my dad came the first day, helped me move in, helped with the the setup and everything.

And even right off the bat, there were girls saying, wow, like your dad's awesome.

My dad would never do that for me.

So do you see that, I would think?