[laughs]

That's perfect.

Uh, well, like most people, I didn't, uh, grow up thinking that I wanted to work with dying people.

It's not something that we know that we have within us, and that ability, um, my great uncle called it grit.

I took care of my great aunt and great uncle in their late 80s into their 90s.

They had no children, and especially my aunt, she was so generous with her dying process, and she explained everything she was seeing and feeling and, you know, I, I got to see and hear when she was really ready to go, and it was a beautiful thing.

And in fact, that night when she died, she appeared to my great uncle in his dreams, and he was a very pragmatic man.

Do you write them down for the living family so that they can hear that by any chance? I'm just curious.