W- what do I personally need to do to change that and get rid of that, those stories?

Yeah.

It's, it's really simple actually, Carly.

It's change your environment.

Um, that's really what it is.

It's about having role models around you who are doing what it is that you want to do so that you see the proof it's possible.

Like you talked about there, that very real thought process that's going through your head, like, "Is this person a con artist? Is she in a pyramid sc- scheme?" And what that says to me is that there's nobody in your circle who's doing what it is that, what I'm doing.

How the hell do you do that? How do you give yourself the space or even give yourself the permission to allow yourself to think in different ways?