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That's the own your shit part, right? Going, "Oh, my gosh, why am I allowing this to ha- why am I, what am I allowing to happen? Uh, wha- what behaviors am I allowing?" And, and, and it was like, "You need to change.

You need to stop treating me this way.

You need to stop treating me this way." And it was like one day a light bulb fricking went off in my head, and I went, "Oh, my gosh, it starts within." Nothing's gonna change until I change.

Until I say, "I am worthy to be treated with respect.

I am worthy." And, and what was happening was I was, like, mirroring back the disrespect.

It became this, "Okay, you're gonna...

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