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Lilli Bewley

Lilli Bewley

Feminine dating coach and podcast host specializing in dating archetypes and relationship healing for women 30+, with 10+ years of personal development experience.

Aug 28, 2026

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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Well, how do we date? Like that is that's a big question, right? Like that is like the biggest question I think that I get.
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And Here's what I always like to say, because like this journey, first of all, yes, I'm a dating coach for finding love, but I'm not the type of dating coach that's going to be like, OK, these are the questions that you need to ask on your first date.
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This is what you need to have on your profile.
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This is no, I'm not the type of coach that's just like, OK, go listen to your intuition or just go trust yourself or just go be yourself, because a lot of the women that I work with are basically tired of being being sick and tired in the dating process and they're seeing patterns they're seeing patterns inside of themselves and outside of themselves that they are ready to change and they're taking responsibility for some of those and the how-to you know i get that all the time how do i do this how do you know dating sucks and how do i do this in the modern world and i don't want to be on apps and all those things.
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And the main thing at the very beginning that I really like to share, again, this isn't just, this isn't just like a lot of women's journey.

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Now, how did you come up with these four types and how are you here? What happened? Well, I mean,
JohnHOST
15:12
only heard of the two.
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Yeah.
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So there's chill.
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And in between the chill woman and the goddess woman is the fortress woman.
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And again, kind of cheeky because the fortress woman is like, it's a good holding pattern place.
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Like a lot of women will go into, or men probably too, will go into fortress mode.
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where like after a breakup or like something hard happening or whatever and it's a good place to get like to be insulated and heal and all that stuff the hard thing is especially for uh for people who are very hyper independent who are very good on their own fortress the fortress woman is too hyper independent right like if you want to attract a dream partner in your life You gotta be able to like ask for support and ask for help.
JohnHOST
18:41
So then what would bring that next level, that final level of ascension?

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