Why kink and BDSM? And then also, why pup play specifically?

Um...

I mean, none of this was sort of planned, that originally I was going to be a maths teacher.

I really enjoyed maths at school, sixth form, and then sort of sadly fell out of love with it in sixth form, picked up psychology.

I was like, that's fun.

Fast forward to the end of the degree I did, I got... connected with a few academics who worked in the field of sexuality and gender and it was through kind of conversations with them that they suggested a PhD might be a good option.

I was at the University of Sunderland for my undergraduate degree.

I'm wondering how easy was it for you, or difficult in you thinking, bringing your kink or erotic life and self into your everyday.