Mm.

It's, um, it's one thing to sit over here and say, "You should lay your d- life down daily," and, like, what that actually looks like.

I think Matt nailed it.

You have to constantly reevaluate, um, because at the end of the day or at the end of the week, if you realize that you've put a lot more time and effort into one of those areas, and then you find yourself lacking or, you know, a kid is acting out, and you realize, "Well, gosh, I haven't had intentional time with them to talk about this," or, you know, again, you dedicate some time to either the kids or, you know, had to stay late at work or whatever, and then you get home, and there's a project that you've been wanting to work on, and, you know, you have a little bit of daylight before the kids go to sleep, and then you start to go out and you realize, "Gosh, I haven't talked to Jessica the, all, for three days." [laughs]

Yeah? But d- with young kids it's tough, right? Like, what's, what's it, what's it look like? Is, are we, you know, are we trying to find time where you can put kids down and do stuff after, you know, do, be intentional after the kids go to bed? Or are you trying to, you know, find babysitters? Are you trying to get away? Like, what is, what does, uh, what does the marriage look like?

Date nights are important.

Uh, intentional time together is important.

Um, I remind my children often that they are number two, and Jessica is number one.