Lee Bauckham
Dr. Lee Baucom is a marriage coach, licensed therapist, and author who created the Save the Marriage System, and hosts the Save The Marriage podcast.
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Oct 9, 2026
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But why do you think so many people end up carrying the emotional weight of the relationship alone, along with maybe even the emotions?
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So there is a piece of our process for everyone where we kind of often take turns in who is taking the lead and holding the emotions.
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But when one person has checked out, if both people decide to be checked out, there is no way forward.
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And at that point, the person who's like, you know, I This is important to me for whatever reason.
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But for some of our listeners who don't, can you explain what you meant by deposit?
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We humans are connecting creatures probably more than at least more than any other creature we know of.
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There is not another creature that I know of that it takes us 18 plus years to launch them into adulthood.
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If you're the spacer, you're not likely going to be looking up stuff on how to save your marriage or listening to podcasts or books.
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