
Leah Mether
Communication and leadership specialist; founder of Leah Mether Pty Ltd; author of "Soft is the New Hard" and "Steer Through the Storm"
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Sep 3, 2026
How to Build a Genuine Speak Up Culture
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Nicky MiklósHOST
What tips do you have or thoughts around really trying to draw people out to speak up if they have concerns, challenges, questions, if they disagree in a safe space but they're not quite there yet?

Leah MetherGUEST
If the only opportunity you're giving people is saying in a meeting, speak up, that will appeal to your more extroverted or assertive communicators.
Are You a Steamroller, a Shirker, or a Steerer?
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Nicky MiklósHOST
there's a risk if we upset that person and rock the boat but they're in the old world and they don't want to come along necessarily or maybe they do but it's early days a tiptoeing behavior a bit of people pleasing or it can even the extreme of that just completely ignoring and you know very dictatorship kind of leadership this is the way it is and that's just it what tips do you have for people that are listening or watching that might resonate with this shift

Leah MetherGUEST
The same leaders who will say to me, I don't have time for that or I don't do feelings, they just need to get on board with it and, you know, go, go, go, you know, that real old school command and control style.

Leah MetherGUEST
They will also be the very same leaders who will come to me and say, Leah, How do I get better performance out of my – I need to get them on board.

Leah MetherGUEST
It will cost you time but it will cost you more time because you're reactively then trying to put out spot fires because why aren't they just coming with me because you've steamrolled right ahead.
Episode 129: Communicating Well Under Pressure
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Leah MetherGUEST
So if we look at psychological safety, essentially all that means is that anyone feels safe to speak up, to contribute, to be heard, without fear of being blamed, shamed, humiliated, belittled, you know, made to feel insignificant.

Leah MetherGUEST
Where it has been confused, and p- sometimes weaponized, is people are confusing feeling unsafe with feeling uncomfortable.

Leah MetherGUEST
So done well, psychological safety means we do speak up, we have robust debate and discussion, that we don't all just agree.

Leah MetherGUEST
But somewhere along the way, um, it has been misconstrued, not by everyone, but by a lot of people, to go, you know, it's all about harmony.
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Leah MetherGUEST
Decisions often build on each other and, you know, "Oh no, I don't like that bit, but, you know, I could take that and if we did this." So that, um, willingness to sit in the discomfort and have that resilience and understand that we're okay.
The workplace is not high school
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Leah MetherGUEST
They realise that at a time when AI is exploding, developing the human skills of people has never been more important because they are what set us apart from the robots.

Leah MetherGUEST
For example, I recently... spoke at the Australian New Zealand Accounting Conference, right? Accounting is one of those industries that has been earmarked as going to be hit really hard by AI.

Leah MetherGUEST
So if you want to future-proof your career and you're in an industry that's going to be hit hard, making sure that you can communicate effectively, empathise, build trust is becoming increasingly important.
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16:10Jerome DoraisamyHOST
And so, you know, for HR and for people in culture, you know, it creates, I guess, you know, some real questions about how best to not only prevent some of this behavior from occurring, but then also being able to react to it in meaningful ways, you know, for those who feel like they don't know what to do.
