What do you mean?

The spouse finds out $50,000, $500,000, $2 million has been transferred and they are not getting it back.

And so the- stupid husband.

Should I say the stupid husband? All of a sudden it's like cold water.

And then they figure out who this is and they say it's a scam.

And the person cannot believe it because they thought everything was true.

And here they are making all this money that they cannot get back.

Wow.

So Nicola should have been dancing with Brooklyn, but obviously Mark Antony just- It just

went out of order.

It's not a big deal in the grand scheme of things.

A son's gonna dance with his mother anyway.

So whether it happens first or second, it's really not that big of a deal.

And I think that unfortunately, the son, Brooklyn Becton, was turning it into a huge deal over absolutely nothing.

I mean, this seems like it was such a lovely wedding and to try to make it this like horrible, toxic situation that it really wasn't.

So 10% of the divorces that happen are because of this particular situation.

Is that enough?

Okay.

I think your mom's a little bit more regimented than I am.

Some people are a little bit more, let things happen more organically.

I think it's good to communicate, but I think in terms of overall communication, I think that it's important that you connect with the other person about a variety of different things, a variety of interests.

You should have common interests and conversations about different things, and that's how you have an intimate relationship.

You'll discuss different topics of interest.

I mean, I guess when you're getting married, you're already at the point where you must have some shared interests.

Totally.

If you're married for two years, if your husband says that he's not going to sponsor you, you can still stay in the country and you get a special immigration pass to be able to stay in the country.

That's something that is useful to someone who wants to stay and is unhappy in their marriage.

And what do you have? What do you think about that?

What do I think about that? I think it's disgusting.

And I think it's the other side of the women taking advantage of the men.

This is the men taking advantage of the women.

And then there are the men who say that they're going to sponsor their wives and they never do.

If you have a dead bedroom, does that mean that that's the end of the relationship?

I think for younger couples, especially when the men find that the bedroom's dead, they're much more motivated.

And it's not that women don't want to have good sex.

That's not the case at all.

It's just that they seem to be a lot more tolerant before they get to that point.

where they're willing to call the relationship because of it.

With older couples, a lot of the older couples are very tolerant for a very long period of time.

You have to work on the marriage.

Are you comfortable talking a little bit about, you know, what was your rate of growth from before implementing Profit First until afterwards?

So prior to the pandemic, I look back at my numbers after I joined HTM and we're about 33.6% profitable, which was great.

But I certainly wasn't taking home as much money.

And then the pandemic hit and overnight we lost about a million and a half dollars worth of business, which was terrible.

And that was pretty rough.

And the last time we had a major market issue, I had been able to pivot and we were able to figure out a different practice area.

And we actually grew up and scaled my law firm till we had 49 employees.

What is your overall like work-life balance look like these days?