I could have anyone else, [laughs] I could have anyone else in the world read it," but like, like, if I was really gonna, if they, if I really shared how I felt, like, how would I be, how would the people who have been in my life actually feel about it? Do you have anything to, to say ab- about that? How do you navigate that when you're, when you're helping someone get their story out in the world, like their actual story?

Yeah.

Well, that is a valid point, and that does stop people from, from telling their stories 'cause they think, "I don't want my mom to read this p- bit about blah, blah, blah." But you have to remember, it is your story.

It is your experience.

There are, are people interacting with you in these stories, but in the end, it is your experience.

You take out this, you take out one thing, somebody else takes an, out another thing.

So I wrote a, a family history for three brothers, and each brother had a very different take on their parents because they were all, of course, they were, they were different ages.

Who would you love to, to tell and why?