Yeah.

So there's still some, like, really fun overlap.

But what I like to write now is primarily on my Substack, and I think I'm kind of finding what feels most constructive and what feels most helpful to my audience.

Like right now, the Substack is largely fo- focused on non-monogamy resources, 'cause that is a lot of the work I do with clients.

So it's a lot of talking through what those relationship dynamics can look like and different kinda tools and communication skills and kinda resources on that front.

But I think where my passion resides is this kinda sweet spot between the personal essay and something that feels a little more like a resource or a little more academic.

I wrote a piece for The Erotic Review, when would that have been? Not last year, but the year before, that I was really proud of, that was about non-monogamy and it was kind of a revisitation of the book, "The Ethical Slut," that is just a practical handbook on non-monogamy and its canon.

Yeah, yeah.

Yeah, life.

So yeah, like we need these relational skills to like heal the world, to heal the patriarchy, to heal the manosphere.

It's that same, like I talk about this a lot, that it's that relational dynamic.

Of like, I need to feel safe to be vulnerable.

I need to feel safe to feel vulnerable.

Both sides essentially saying that, but both approaching with anger and saying like, well, why haven't you done the thing to repair my lack of safety? Why haven't you done the thing to repair? That's happening between feminists and the patriarchy, men in the manosphere and the women who are fucking angry at the manosphere.

Which is a controversial, tough thing to say, right? That like we have to repair that the same way we repair any relational dynamic.

That feels like something that is actually has like a positive contribution and is something that's actually achievable.