Laura, when you saw your grandparents in places like this, what does it bring up for you thinking about moving your mom in there?

Well, for my grandparents, my grandfather had had a stroke and was paralyzed on the left side of his body.

So I was like, thank goodness for stepped care, skilled care facilities, which is where my grandfather went into.

And he needed that support.

I And then my grandparents would be calling the fire department in Chatham, New Jersey, and the fire department would come in and pick them up.

And I mean, this was happening on such a regular basis that my mom told me my grandfather would just send these lavish dinners over to the firehouse every few months as like a thank you, because this was how they were getting support.

So for watching my grandparents go through this, but they were again, like in their late 80s, 90s.

So when, when are you going to talk to your stepfather?