Yeah.

Yeah.

Well, when you were speaking, it reminds me of something I used to say to a client of mine, which was like, secure is sexy.

Like we need to rewrite that program, right? Secure is sexy.

We want to find that attractive because it is like once you get out, like on the other side of that pattern.

that's how you think you're like fucking hell, like secure is sexy.

This person shows up, that's hot.

Yeah, what are the deal breakers in your mind that people need to just like not put up with?

And how would you say it's affecting the dating world then? I know we've touched quite a bit now, but on this alpha male movement, how have you seen that's affecting the dating pool, especially with your clients? What are they saying?

So it's interesting because if I rewind several years when I was getting into coaching, more specifically around dating and relationships, one thing that used to come through, and again, it's this like pendulum swing, right? And sliding scale of where something sits.

So there was a time when I was working with people that were complaining that, you know, some men they were dating weren't taking the lead enough, that they felt like a lot of women that I was working with around that time felt like we have to do everything right.

And we just want to relax on a date, not be like, oh, no, the guy's not planned anything.

He's just like, oh, where do you want to go? Oh, I don't know.

I don't mind.

And they found that a turn off.

yeah.