circus? Whose monkeys? Right.

Right.

Right, because sometimes other people create chaos just in their own way that they're addicted to drama, right? So really separating what's me, what's them, what's real, and then what can I control? Um, because ultimately that when there's chaos, like there's so little you can control.

So you've got to, it's almost like if you look at it like a bullseye, you know, and you're in the middle of the bullseye, it's like, what are the layers of like, of control? All right.

I can't control what's going on in the world right now.

I can't control what's going on in my nation.

I can't control what's going on in my town.

Yeah, I mean,

Yeah.

You know, like you just started pivoting for some reason, and then all of a sudden you find yourself with a business.

And I think women have a hard time asking for help.

You know, we keep on thinking we've gotta do it all.

I've gotta drag the kids along, I've gotta do everything.

And so we don't ask for help, so we don't think mentor.

But, you know, anyone will tell you, you know, especially if you listen to Anthony Robbins or any of the, the Sharks on the Shark Tank, you know, it's like you need to have a mentor.

Like, we can't do it all, especially if you want to be an entrepreneur or have the entrepreneurial spirit.