How would you describe or make a pitch to that man that is now either coming into the faith or relearning the faith in a way that makes them understand what this mission is? And if it's a Catholic, right, that mission of confirmation.

it's a, it's a great question.

And the way you phrase the question is, is very, um, appropriate.

I think that first and foremost, we have to understand what it is to be a Catholic man.

What does that mean? Um, what does it mean to, to be Catholic, um, in a traditional sense, because in the modernist sense has no value.

In fact, it's an impediment to sanctity is an impediment to, um, Merit, modern definition of these things sidetracks and keeps one down, and as St. Thomas would say, keeps you trying to satisfy the lower faculties rather than seeking merit through the conformity of will to God's will.

What is God's will? God's will is to be Christ-like.

So when we talk about the virtues, what are some of those virtues that men should be cultivating right now in terms of how to engage in the spiritual battle, how to be a Catholic man or a Christian man in today's age? You talked a little bit about purity and chastity, but Are there other virtues that you think that would be good for us to work on to help with changing the culture?