Mm-hmm.

Like, well, are we laughing together? And then I have gotta think, "Well, am I light-hearted enough to be able to laugh and have a good time with my husband?" And so even in the in-betweens, that making the most of those in-betweens, that in those in-between times, I want those to be joy-filled time, that we're having those exclusive relational connections.

And it doesn't have to be like, "Okay, we're going deep into this." It's usually more of like, "Can you believe that car? Can you believe that purple car that we rented last week that we drove around in?" [laughs] You know? And we just, we'll, we'll just laugh about nothing.

But-

Mm

... your paradigm is, is that this is, you're gonna experience the greatest rewards.

Yes.

There are going to be challenges, but you can have fun along the way doing it- Mm-hmm ... and you can have that, a playful attitude along the way.