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Kim

May 20, 2026

TanlinGUEST
8:55
I like nitty gritty sort of things, so that is kind of what goes into it for me, at least, what I've noticed for us.
KimGUEST
9:03
Yeah, I think that's the fun part about our show, is that we're all so different in terms of GM'ing, but also because we're such good friends as well, the chemistry there is super fun.
KimGUEST
9:16
And I know each of us kind of go about picking a system for each season differently.
KimGUEST
9:21
I know for me, I sometimes will start with the vibe or the kind of story I wanna tell and seeing what system I want it to work with it.
KimGUEST
9:29
And so, like, for my season, I really wanted to tell some kind of, like, Gotham-esque noir faction-y sort of story.
KimGUEST
9:36
And so I was like, well, what kind of systems work for that kind of vibe that I wanted? And I'd heard a lot about Blades in the Dark before, and I was like, well, I've always wanted to try Blades in the Dark.
KimGUEST
9:45
And then I looked into Blades in the Dark and I was like, oh, I kinda love Blades in the Dark.

6 MINS LATER

TanlinGUEST
15:26
Y- I can't even talk, so... [laughs]
19:26
How you guys doing?
KimGUEST
19:26
Okay, so we're doing great.
KimGUEST
19:28
We're in Carytown, Richmond, Virginia, a little shopping district, and we figured we'd start outside.
KimGUEST
19:34
Um, show you what it looks like down here.
KimGUEST
19:36
There's tons of really awesome little restaurants.
KimGUEST
19:39
Um, little theater down there where we do a lot of our videos and whatnot.
KimGUEST
19:43
We've got an awesome coffee shop right next door.
21:07
[laughs]
OdetteHOST
23:40
... or a couple days in a row? You know, because that's not there, is that going to now change your mindset to one, again, of, um, frustration and control, and then that's how you're gonna make your decisions? Or, you know, are you truly in this place where you can still be confident that this is just a fluctuation? Like, how does that re- how do you keep that reward system balanced when you're saying, "I still use the scale as a reward," but there's gonna be many days where it's not going to give you that feeling?
KimGUEST
24:14
I honestly think with, um-If you want to finally let go of that attachment to the scale and having it affect your day for good, you absolutely have to try to work your way out of that, the scale, the number on the scale is my reward mentality.
KimGUEST
24:33
Because you're constantly going to be chained to it and looking at it for approval, looking at it to s- to state your worth for you.
KimGUEST
24:44
You need to be able to find that from within yourself versus trying to get that from a scale and a number, because you're gonna be chained to that scale for the rest of your life if you can't let that go.
KimGUEST
24:54
That's, like, the thing you need to work on.
KimGUEST
24:55
It's interesting, somebody, um, in the weight loss group this morning said something about accountability, um, too, about how they had done something with a personal trainer and then a nutritionist or whatever, like done something else prior last year.
OdetteHOST
25:55
Mm-hmm.
KimGUEST
25:56
Somebody else having to be that carrot that's being dangled that's keeping it doing it, and trying to figure out what we need to do to get ourselves in the mindset and that head space where I'm doing this for me because of me, and you don't need to be accountable to anybody else for it.
19:10
You know, the funny thing is, we fit right in.
KimGUEST
19:14
I j- I fit right in with the island of misfits.
KimGUEST
19:16
Um, my husband and I went to dinner with Matt and Will and Jen, um, when they offered me the job, and I said I wanted to think about it, and I got in the car, and my husband looked at me, and he goes, "You are dumb if you don't jump right now."
19:29
[laughs]
KimGUEST
19:29
So I jumped, and it was the people.
KimGUEST
19:32
Um, I didn't know anything about RV black tank treatments or anything, but it was really, I jumped because of the people, and I've never looked back.
KimGUEST
19:39
It's been the best journey.
29:14
[laughs]
KimGUEST
29:15
...
KimGUEST
29:15
Ran, uh, Ran Abuki wakes up, uh, in a room, uh, with no memories and a notebook.
KimGUEST
29:25
Uh, the only thing she knows, because it is written in the book, is that she is searching for her missing girlfriend, uh, An Sakura, and that she has schizophrenia and is currently unmedicated.
KimGUEST
29:37
Uh, she then gets out and finds out she's in a school with a bunch of other girls who are stuck in a, not a time loop, but they have a killing game that they do as, like, schoolwork in this weird limbo they're trapped in where they kill each other and try to get away with it.
KimGUEST
30:02
Um, and upon discovering the culprit, uh, the dead are resurrected, and this freaks Ran the fuck out.
KimGUEST
30:11
Uh, and she discovers her girlfriend is there also and has to figure out how to get her out.

1 HR 47 MINS LATER

137:29
Bye-bye.
Remember Me

Remember Me

Ike

Apr 29 · 1h 0m

speaker_3HOST
13:02
Mm
KimGUEST
13:02
... um, especially, even before we knew what was happening, because he was just spending money on all of these things, and then I wouldn't catch it until way down the line.
KimGUEST
13:10
I'd ask him about it, not accusatory, but just, "Hey, you know, I wanna know, did you do this transaction? If you did, great.
KimGUEST
13:18
I just wanna make sure it's not fraudulent, and I have to call the bank." And he would sit there and look like a deer in headlights and just staring off, and he, he, he never, he never could answer it.
KimGUEST
13:29
And I'm like, "What is go-" Wow, that was, that was so difficult.
KimGUEST
13:34
I was frustrated.
KimGUEST
13:36
I was nervous.

10 MINS LATER

speaker_4HOST
23:41
Mm.
3:18
[gentle music] Without realizing it, Chloe has been sharing her deepest anxieties with a woman who'd had a secret relationship with her father, a woman who'd had his baby, abandoned it, and never told a soul.
KimGUEST
3:35
She just kept saying she felt violated.
KimGUEST
3:37
That's the word that she kept using, and she were angry because she'd trusted Jennifer.
KimGUEST
3:44
And not only that, the fact that Dad had allowed that to happen, so that meant that, really, did he care about her at all? What more important to him, keeping his secrets covered up or putting his daughter in a situation that s- she shouldn't have been in? Having this woman that he'd had an affair with counseling her.
KimGUEST
4:07
So I think it kinda shook her because obviously she trusted my dad, and she trusted Jennifer.

22 MINS LATER

speaker_11GUEST
26:13
It's not real.
KimGUEST
26:15
It was my biggest fear, and it ended up happening, and it was the worst thing that could have happened.
KimGUEST
26:23
And I think, I think I'll always be angry, um, because you're constantly thinking, "Could it have ended differently had things been different?"
10:00
So you have to be accompanied on these visits out, uh, Kim, do you?
KimGUEST
10:03
Um, when we have the babies, yes.
10:32
It's, it's rather difficult to imagine that a woman would do something against a child.
KimGUEST
10:36
Oh, yeah.
KimGUEST
10:37
For me, it's, it's hard for me to fathom that a mother or any woman would be able to do that to a child, but it, it happens, and there's actually women in this prison that have hurt their children.
15:03
She calls her eldest daughter, Kim.
KimGUEST
15:06
Whenever I get a phone call, I instantly know there's something wrong.
KimGUEST
15:08
If it's not a text, I'm like, right, what the hell's going on here? So I answer the phone.
KimGUEST
15:13
I'm like, "Hello?" And she says, "Do you know as well?" I'm like, "What?" "Do you know?" So I'm like, "Know what?"

12 MINS LATER

27:21
The counseling has often been the best way, the only way, of coping during some of her darkest moments of despair and depression.
KimGUEST
27:29
You know like the alarms that old people have on the doors? There were stages where we had alarms so that if she got up at night and opened that door, we'd hear it, so we'd get up.
47:13
It starts getting written up as like a big meme, uh, essentially by places like Vice that do an article on it.
KimGUEST
47:20
"Went to see this movie on Friday.
KimGUEST
47:22
I wanted to cringe when my husband said she's pretty.
KimGUEST
47:25
He can't see that they're both trans." "How do you and your husband broach this topic?" "He thinks I'm nuts." "[sighs] Well, that sucks.
KimGUEST
47:32
I'm on husband number three, and I finally got one with an open mind." "Joy is on her third husband because she cannot stop transvestigating." "Testosterone can do some amazing things." "Still a girl." "I was having a really hard time seeing anything even kind of manly about Marilyn Monroe, and suddenly it was like bam!"

9 MINS LATER

56:45
I would prefer you to read it, yeah, 'cause I don't really wanna read it.
KimGUEST
56:48
[laughs] This is from a Them article.
KimGUEST
56:50
"Transvestigators often believe that the so-called trans inverts are assigned handlers by whoever is controlling the alleged conspiracy, which, as one may have guessed, is where the Kirk case degrades into full-blown antisemitism.
speaker_6UNKNOWN
13:44
[laughing]
KimGUEST
13:45
All right, Kim.
KimGUEST
13:46
My question's around the underdog mindset.
KimGUEST
13:50
Um, so at what point do you feel that the underdog mindset becomes more of a liability rather than a advantage?

27 MINS LATER

speaker_15UNKNOWN
41:20
So typically-
KimGUEST
41:22
[laughing]
44:19
What was the beef of the people that were so viciously coming after you?
KimGUEST
44:26
We provide, uh, transparency and accountability in our county executive committee, and they wanted to get rid of us.
KimGUEST
44:34
They do not want oversight on the CEC.
KimGUEST
44:38
So they spent a lot of money to try and take us out, and they failed.
47:26
How did you guys then pull off 65/35 wins?
KimGUEST
47:29
wins?Well, I wrote a letter to my constituents, and I put it in a precinct packet with my preferred candidates.
KimGUEST
47:39
And in that letter, I explained exactly what was going on in Montgomery County, and I delivered it to over 1,000 homes myself.
KimGUEST
47:49
So we block walked-
27:59
[laughs]
KimGUEST
27:59
Um, I'm obsessed.
KimGUEST
28:02
I, oh my God.
KimGUEST
28:04
I said something to Fran the other day-
28:06
Yep.
KimGUEST
28:08
And then I went home and I saw that you guys were talking about it, and I literally wrote on Twitter, I'm like, "Fran, I swear I was listening to the show." [laughs]
EricaHOST
4:27
So take it away.
KimGUEST
4:28
Okay.
KimGUEST
4:29
F- first, I have to say, Owen's picture, I used to work in the news business, the tilted head is the anchorman trick for you to fall in love with them, like your dog looking at you with their sad, little eyes, tilting their head.
KimGUEST
4:44
So [chuckles] love the new picture.
KimGUEST
4:47
But I, um, I started...
KimGUEST
4:49
Let me start with when I, uh, began to watch Scott, is after, uh, Greg Gutfeld mentioned Scott's, uh, illness, that's when I started watching the live stream.
KimGUEST
5:01
I, I had read Dilbert for years and, and was a fan, and I would see some of the, his posts on X.

7 MINS LATER

EricaHOST
12:28
Tell us again, what, what happened?
BobGUEST
17:46
Thank you.
KimGUEST
17:47
Thanks so much.
KimGUEST
17:51
[doorbell dinging]

18 MINS LATER

JunePANELIST
35:30
Am I ri- no. No.
KimGUEST
35:32
Eldon, listen, I don't think we're taking this as seriously as we should.
KimGUEST
35:38
I think somebody's trying to spy on us.
13:59
Yeah.
KimGUEST
13:59
Like, we didn't buy anything, and it was just fun to window shop.
KimGUEST
14:03
We got, like, little Polaroid pictures in the booths and had some, uh, Cinnabon-
speaker_0NARRATOR
18:04
Mm.
KimGUEST
18:05
And it was a fucking nightmare every time.
KimGUEST
18:07
Parking was always miserable, there's people running around, and then, you know, you have to deal with the weather.
KimGUEST
18:14
So the indoor mall, it was so refreshing.
MilesHOST
64:17
And-
KimGUEST
64:17
Okay.
KimGUEST
64:18
So Kim, Kim's right.
KimGUEST
64:19
There, there are two.
KimGUEST
64:20
So Hereditary, I feel like was the movie where I was like, there, there is a supernatural evil entity in the world, and somebody made a movie about it, and I'm here for it.
KimGUEST
64:39
And I love-

6 MINS LATER

MilesHOST
70:49
Oh, wow.
KimGUEST
70:49
And so trying to give them, uh, normal childhood opportunities and events and things like that.

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