So if you could speak to those issues about terminology that you think is more accurate and respectful rather than blaming the child.

Yes, absolutely.

So I want to address this in two ways.

I want to address like the actual terminology that we have used and that is now more frequently being used.

But before I even go there, I want to say, you know, consistent with this philosophy that like Part of showing respect for another individual is respecting their autonomy.

I don't like to police language, right? So people come into this with different understandings of what is going on with themselves or what is going on with their child.

And there's also research that uses the term pathological.

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