Now, you mentioned that people talk all the time, but why do you think there's such a disconnect between talking and actively listening and truly communicating, even though we all know how to talk?

Well, Um, Gary Chapman a long time ago wrote the book, uh, five love languages.

Um, it's one of my favorite books.

I read it just about every year, at least once.

Uh, I love that.

And, and in that book, he talks about, uh, the way that we different, the, the different types of love as far as, um, act of service or, or, um, or any number of the five love languages.

And so we tend to communicate the way we listen, but not necessarily the way our partner or our spouse listens.

Now, what are, in your opinion, some do's and don'ts when it comes to being a good mentor and being a good mentee?