But then looking back, I'm like, okay, yeah, that is actually you wanting me to show up a certain way that is not me right and that's when i realized at the end of the day and he goes back to being authentic and i'm sure we're going to talk about that very soon but you have to show up as you are not how people expect you to to show up because you can do it once you can do it twice but it's not sustainable just keep showing up as people expect you to show up it's just not sustainable

I think the buzzwords to like executive presence and, you know, being more communicative or because you could be communicating, you could have the presence, you could be all that.

People will be intimidated by you no matter what you do.

And so I think as women, we have I think we have like a dynamic duo, maybe trio.

We're smart.

We're effective.

And most of the time we're very good looking.

This is a safe place.