And I was like, at that point I was like, okay, I need to like put her down, have someone come in and help me, you know? And then also, have you found that other moms are relieved when someone finally says like, you know, something out loud that you're like, me too, like being guilty, having the freedom that you had before? Yeah.

Yeah, of course.

There's a chapter in the book about the birthing class that I went to.

And to be honest, I didn't really learn very much in the birthing class that I hadn't seen on TikTok.

The one thing I did learn that I can share that stuck with me was that it helps progress labor if you empty your bladder.

So I remember the instructor saying, go pee when you're in labor.

Don't forget to go pee because your bladder is kind of in the way.

And then on almost like there's no deep end, like you're literally just like treading water, like a duck, you know? I mean, what surprised you most about how your relationship changed

And I was like, at that point I was like, okay, I need to like put her down, have someone come in and help me, you know? And then also, have you found that other moms are relieved when someone finally says like, you know, something out loud that you're like, me too, like being guilty, having the freedom that you had before? Yeah.

Yeah, of course.

There's a chapter in the book about the birthing class that I went to.

And to be honest, I didn't really learn very much in the birthing class that I hadn't seen on TikTok.

The one thing I did learn that I can share that stuck with me was that it helps progress labor if you empty your bladder.

So I remember the instructor saying, go pee when you're in labor.

Don't forget to go pee because your bladder is kind of in the way.

And then on almost like there's no deep end, like you're literally just like treading water, like a duck, you know? I mean, what surprised you most about how your relationship changed