What or how does a parent shift their mindset to step back and just let that happen?

So I think it's hard because I think as parents, we feel if we're not in it, if we're not in that play, if we're not sitting down with them, then maybe they're not getting what they need.

But often because we are so black and white as adults, we interrupt the play.

And that's why I say parents you know, we should go from teacher to facilitator.

And that's where you're setting up open invitations to play and then letting them discover it.

And then you're going a step further to observer.

Because if you're not observing your children in play, it is hard to know what's going on with your child.

And I was wondering if you could just share a concept or a story about that concept.