Mm.

And when she asked me the question, "Who will you be when you're no longer Mrs. Mike Perry?" And I, I was kind of, like, taken aback and I was like, "I, I'm just gonna be who I always was." And what I realized, maybe not then, was that my identity was much more tied to Dr.

Perry.

That was the...

So I thought, "Well, I'm gonna miss my husband.

I loved him dearly.

I enjoyed..." And, and that was the truth, Kavita, that he, he was the love of my life, but that wasn't the identity that shook me.

Yes.