What, what is that feeling like to stand at the top of the room and to know you're trying to h- you're holding this together emotionally for the room, or you're setting the tone emotionally for this really important day for these people?

Yeah.

I love it.

I absolutely love it.

And I think a lot of what I love about it is I love people, so I love to feel and read what is going on in the room.

Because the, the pattern it will follow is when you go in first and everybody's arriving, it's really jingle-jangle, and very often you'll have one spouse in the room while the other is off getting ready.

And they will have everybody coming up and saying, "Ooh, are they gonna show up? Are you nervous?" And I really feel for them, because I think, "Oh, all that's doing is ac- actually escalating any nerves that are there." Or else they're trying to be super cool and unfazed.

Tell me about finding that space or why you thought the gap was there that needed to be filled.