see it, but nothing's changing.

I get it.

And welcome to being a human being.

Most of us humans stay stuck.

And it's just true.

Most of us humans keep doing the same thing over and over.

And we bitch and moan.

It's like, is it behind me? Is it behind me? Is it behind me? Yeah, yeah.

... emotional needs, but also not, but being able to serve yourself?

I love, love, love, love, love that question.

And again, this comes back to the beginning of a relationship or at least you need to establish it now, which is how do we navigate When we bump into those situations, how do we negotiate both of our needs so it's a win-win? Because, and that's one of the things I love about my partner, soon out the gate we talked about it's never about letting go or losing something that's important to us.

How do we create a win and create it for both of us? And so yeah, if one person needs something that seems like it's clashing with another, hopefully you've established a, a container of safety to be able to go, "Okay, let's look at this.

Let's have a, a really healthy dialogue and communicate w- what's going on." Okay, I'm...

You know, so maybe he s- he speaks first about it was really hard for you to be away, or I'm, I'm feeling that, that need to have, you know, some, some quality time.

And then maybe it's like, "Okay, let's talk about what that looks like, and this is where I'm at." And that's where we dance.

Without having that argument, without having that emotional burst, how can we be able to communicate effectively during those arguments?

How can I get this to go away? What's your advice other than paint your body naked?

Yeah.

Well, again, you know, I did it to send a message out, but I have so many people say, but I don't want to do that.

I don't want to get painted to get to that place.

And probably people aren't going to want to do the next thing I'm about to say, which is piggybacking on what you said, which is I had so much healing by being on nude beaches for the same reason.

it just suddenly brought me back to reality that the body is unique and beautiful and different.

And even if somebody looked a little bit more perfect than me, they still have their issues.

And as a result of that, I think that men sometimes can become overly preoccupied with a certain look, a certain figure, a certain type of body shape that neglects so many other women that perhaps might be... potential partners.