But even the compulsion

compulsionTo conform is ancestral.

And I wonder then how, what do we do with that knowledge? Like, I, I, I, I, I either want to wear the shorts that shows my ass, or I don't want you to wear the shorts that shows your ass, and both are really big.

Mm-hmm.

And I'm recognizing in me this, mm, that's, that's coming from somewhere that's not just me.

Right.

And then what? Mm-hmm.

Right