Okay, so let's tell everybody who you are that's listening.

So I'm, I'm Joy, and I am Betsy's ops person, um, her virtual assistant, um, go-to person hopefully.

And, uh, I love my job.

It's been an honor and a privilege to work for someone so innovative and caring, and I, I can't say enough good things about Navigate.

I'm an alumni member myself.

I, I'm thankful to be working for you now years later after I completed the program, but I love my job.

Yeah.

Good.

Mm-hmm

... along those lines.

And then I, and I realized that was the truth.

So I started looking at that, and then I joined the collective, and I just devoured.

I would get up every Saturday morning and listen to the, that week's sessions and everything, and I sent my selfies to you for the color and all.

And how it helped me was just I was buying a lot of things that I'm looking...

So I, I took the personal style quiz, and the three things that came up, the three, um, that came up for me are things that I had already...

How did you reconcile that for yourself in jumping into the program knowing that it is an investment in your education and, um, your wardrobe, when maybe that's something you were actually hoping to scale back on?

Everything kids love.

We rode down in there, you know, and I had this bullet.

And I got out and I started blowing in it.

It was making whistling noises all through that canyon.

And there was no way I was gonna go down there and get down in it.

And then it had a ledge up there, and I looked up there and I said, "Look, man, there's deer tracks up here." And it had been sprinkling, and it was like Georgia clay and sand.

And I was looking at the deer tracks, and all of a sudden there it was, man.

Everything kids love.

Pull up a seat and let's get started.

So I was noticing this morning, I mean, I notice this other times too, that I have these thoughts in my head that aren't helping me get to where I'm going, and I'm not sure what to do with them.

And so the things I was saying this morning, "I don't have enough time.

I'm tired.

I have trouble making good decisions," things like this.

And when we think, "I don't have enough time," what happens?

Well, by the end of the day I'm like, "Oh, see? You didn't have enough time.

You didn't get, you didn't get enough done." So can I add this? Because this is also, this adds into it.

That's awesome.

I think that the power of my, of our, my mind and my, my potential.

I have no idea.

And then I start to, okay, because I think intention first and then the way can come later.

And again, when I came here and I just like, okay, what I'm gonna do? And I'm thinking about, um, giving the, um, consultant and advice to people.

And, and then I s- start to find a way to doing it.

And even I'm...

Yeah.

Right.

And, uh, we met, I had a, was, uh, living on my own for some years, had my own flat and whatever, and he was still living at his mother's house, a very big house, independently codependent-

Mm.

Um, uh, you know, so they don't I think get the point that, you know, the, you know, the average woman who does work needs to have more time off, you know, to look after silly little things like, you know, going to a school play, picking up kids early, taking them to various sports events and all the rest of it-