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Joshua Seftel

Joshua Seftel

American film director

Aug 18, 2026

3:10
Well, first,
3:10
thanks for having me.
3:11
The way it started was I was approached by Steve Hartman, who, as you mentioned, is a CBS News correspondent.
3:19
You may have seen him on shows like CBS Sunday Morning or CBS Evening News, where he often does the piece that's at the very end of the broadcast.
3:29
that is sort of uplifting and gives us hope about humanity.
3:33
And he reached out to me with a project he was working on that was very different from anything he had done before.
3:41
And he explained to me that he had been writing letters to every family who lost a child to a school shooting since Sandy Hook.
6:46
Overall, do you have a sense that, I mean, we are moving on faster after school shootings, we are forgetting more rapidly, and do you think that this media of filmmaking will somehow trigger a change with that rapid forgetting?
19:15
Talk about your, your kind of thought about the ethics of journalism and the slant that this film takes on that phenomenon.
19:23
Sure.
19:24
I mean, there's so much coverage of these acts, these events.
19:29
Uh, they've already been covered, um, ad nauseam, and often from the point of view of who was the shooter, what's their story, why did they do it, what happened, where...
19:43
You know, how many people died? Um, what are the details of that? We've all seen those reports.
19:51
We're numb to those reports.
19:54
Oftentimes they sort of center the reporting around the, the shooter, and we just wanted to do something that was really different.

15 MINS LATER

35:16
I can't imagine what I do next," you know? And he's like, "It was weirdly like kind of the most depressing end to the most amazing night of my life." And, and so I guess I'm asking you d- sort of are you envisioning where it will go, and then when you get there, what does it feel like?
44:56
Tell me a little bit about why you wanted to capture this on film.
45:01
Well, I was approached by Steve Hartman, and he told me about the project he was doing, going into the bedrooms with a photographer taking pictures.
45:11
And he thought, you know, he wondered if there, if there could be a film, a documentary.
45:17
And, you know, I have two little girls myself who are five and nine, and I was immediately struck by the approach and by the, the idea of reframing this issue a- away from the political debate we have here.
45:35
You know, in the US there, there are over 100 school shootings a year now, and, uh, gun violence is the number one cause of death for children in the US.
45:45
So it's, it's a, it's a big issue, and it's an issue that is debated in a way that is, um, all about guns and whether we should ... whether you've got enough guns or too many guns, and the debate has gotten nowhere.
46:01
And these school shootings continue to, to happen at this rate, this crazy rate.
48:04
What difference does that make?

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